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Giving Florida’s foster kids a chance to live a ‘normal’ life

By Gloria Fletcher

Special to the Star-Banner
Published: Sunday, April 7, 2013 at 6:30 a.m.
Last Modified: Friday, April 5, 2013 at 6:15 p.m.

For Florida kids in foster care — and the foster parents, guardians and attorneys who advocate for their lives and futures — the word “normal” is not in their vocabulary.

They have little access to “normal” health care channels, like other kids do. They often get shuttled from one school to the next as foster homes change. School field trips, play dates and sleepovers require approval from case managers, at best, or at worst, fingerprints and background checks.

Some 19,000 kids in Florida foster care cannot live the life of a normal child and participate in normal childhood activities.

“In our zest to protect foster care kids, we’ve basically bubble wrapped them and kept them from normalcy throughout their childhood,” said state Sen. Nancy C. Detert.

However, both the Florida House and Senate have passed bills that will help eliminate some restrictions and reporting requirements that prevent foster children from enjoying normal activities like other kids. It now awaits Gov. Rick Scott’s expected signature to become law.

This change had huge community support. More than two dozen members of Florida Youth SHINE, an advocacy group of current and former foster kids, spoke in support of the proposal. They were backed, as they often are, by members of the Florida Guardian ad Litem program and Florida’s Children First. The intention was clear: We needed to educate legislators about the need to help foster children lead more normal lives.

I believe the message got through. When Scott signs the bill, foster parents will be free to act like “normal” parents. Gone will be requests for approval from agencies and the courts to allow kids in their care to do what any other kid can. Scheduling doctor’s visits, attending or changing schools, even having sleepovers or birthday parties at Chuck E. Cheese — without fingerprints of host parents — all will become part of their normal lives. Let these kids be kids.

Another bill under review will raise the age limit of foster care from 18 to 21. “Aging out” has long been a problem for young adults facing uncertain, scary futures beyond foster care.

A child leaving foster care often does not have a birth certificate, Social Security card nor their immunization records. While some children are more than capable of leaving home at 18, armed with survival skills and information to survive in the world, most foster children are not ready for this step at 18.

Together, these bills represent a “dramatic shift in the culture of the program,” said Secretary David Wilkins of the Department of Children and Families.

This debate has shown foster kids are not just files to review or cases to be shuttled about. And they’re not china dolls to be bubble wrapped and protected.

They are kids. All they want are normal lives. Is that really too much to ask?

 

Gloria Fletcher is a Gainesville lawyer and vice president of Florida’s Children First, a children’s advocacy group.

 

 

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Alexia Nechayev

FYS Events & Meeting Chair
(Palm Beach/Miami)

Alexia Nechayev, from Miami, Florida, is a dedicated advocate for youth with lived experience in foster care and with homelessness. After being placed in foster care as a teenager, Alexia experienced firsthand the stigma surrounding the system, as well as the challenges of navigating a system that didn’t provide support for her to advocate for herself. This experience motivated her to create change, ensuring that other youth in care have the tools and resources she lacked.

She graduated with a B.A. in Psychology from Florida International University, and upon graduation worked as a Hope Navigator with the Department of Children and Families which allowed her to assist clients through individualized care plans, further deepening her commitment to improving the lives of marginalized youth. Alexia is now applying to law schools with the goal of advancing her advocacy work through a legal career. As the Events and Meetings Chair for Florida Youth SHINE (FYS), she creates opportunities for foster and homeless youth to collaborate and push for meaningful change. She is also an active member of the Policy and Initiative Team for Florida Youth SHINE, where she helps create and shape policies that directly impact youth in foster care. One of her proudest accomplishments is helping to develop the Foster Care Bill of Rights, a law that she feels would have made a difference during her own time in care.

In addition to her work with FYS, Alexia serves on the Board of Directors for the parent organization of FYS, Florida’s Children First. In this role, she contributes to strategic decision-making while advocating for the rights and welfare of children statewide.

Every year, she travels to the state capitol to advocate for bills she and her peers have helped shape, including key pieces of legislation that benefit foster and homeless youth. However her advocacy extends beyond her state, as she represents Florida Youth SHINE at national conferences such as the National Leaders 4 Change Conference.

Through her internship with the National Foster Youth Institute, Alexia continues to refine her advocacy skills, preparing for a future where she can contribute meaningfully to both policymaking and the legal system. Guided by the belief that “the blue sky is always there,” she remains committed to ensuring that every youth in foster care has the power and support to advocate for themselves.

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