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‘Florida Youth Shine’ amplifying voices of former foster kids to spark change in the child welfare system

Navigating the child welfare system can be challenging for many kids, whether they’re adopted or in foster care.

A statewide organization called Florida Youth Shine is dedicated to advocating for those children by amplifying their voices. It was founded in 2005 by Florida’s Children First.

“At the age of 16, I was taken from my home and placed into the foster care system. The day that I entered care was the day that I lost about 90% of my rights,” Rebekka Behr, the statewide chair for Florida Youth Shine, said.

Behr was moved from her home in Loxahatchee and spent the next two years in a group home near Lake Worth Beach. She said her caretakers there caused her to miss weeks of school and stopped her from speaking to friends and family.

“I felt isolated. I felt like I was in prison. I felt like I had done something wrong and that I just belonged there and I didn’t know what I had done,” Behr said.

When Behr turned 18, she enrolled at Florida State University in Tallahassee.

After aging out of foster care, she was assigned an independent living specialist from Vita Nova, an organization that functions as a safe haven for homeless and foster care youth.

Through the specialist, she was introduced to Florida Youth Shine and wanted to get involved.

“In order to make differences in the lives of children, we realize that youth that have been through the foster care system need to be the ones that are informing it and helping solve some of the biggest problems, so it’s completely youth-led,” Geori Seldine, the executive director of Florida’s Children First, said.

Seldine said FYS’s youth leaders have made monumental changes in the foster care system that have bettered the lives of children.

“Florida Youth Shine advocated for so many changes, whether that be normalcy—so, before Florida Youth Shine advocated for that—children couldn’t participate in their football practices. They couldn’t go on sleepovers. They couldn’t be normal kids,” Seldine said.

Behr is part of that change. She’s served five years with the organization, the last one as the organization’s statewide chair, and she’s hoping to make even more of a difference.

“Having us not only at the table but being in those positions of leadership to take action allows for things that have happened to us, no longer happen to those in care,” Behr said.

Florida Youth Shine has 14 chapters across the state, including Vita Nova in West Palm Beach.

Those seeking membership must be between the ages of 13 and 26, involved in the child welfare system, or is experiencing homelessness.

 

Jade Jarvis

Anchor/Reporter

WPBF

Updated: 3:20 PM EDT Aug 10, 2022

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Alexia Nechayev

FYS Events & Meeting Chair
(Palm Beach/Miami)

Alexia Nechayev, from Miami, Florida, is a dedicated advocate for youth with lived experience in foster care and with homelessness. After being placed in foster care as a teenager, Alexia experienced firsthand the stigma surrounding the system, as well as the challenges of navigating a system that didn’t provide support for her to advocate for herself. This experience motivated her to create change, ensuring that other youth in care have the tools and resources she lacked.

She graduated with a B.A. in Psychology from Florida International University, and upon graduation worked as a Hope Navigator with the Department of Children and Families which allowed her to assist clients through individualized care plans, further deepening her commitment to improving the lives of marginalized youth. Alexia is now applying to law schools with the goal of advancing her advocacy work through a legal career. As the Events and Meetings Chair for Florida Youth SHINE (FYS), she creates opportunities for foster and homeless youth to collaborate and push for meaningful change. She is also an active member of the Policy and Initiative Team for Florida Youth SHINE, where she helps create and shape policies that directly impact youth in foster care. One of her proudest accomplishments is helping to develop the Foster Care Bill of Rights, a law that she feels would have made a difference during her own time in care.

In addition to her work with FYS, Alexia serves on the Board of Directors for the parent organization of FYS, Florida’s Children First. In this role, she contributes to strategic decision-making while advocating for the rights and welfare of children statewide.

Every year, she travels to the state capitol to advocate for bills she and her peers have helped shape, including key pieces of legislation that benefit foster and homeless youth. However her advocacy extends beyond her state, as she represents Florida Youth SHINE at national conferences such as the National Leaders 4 Change Conference.

Through her internship with the National Foster Youth Institute, Alexia continues to refine her advocacy skills, preparing for a future where she can contribute meaningfully to both policymaking and the legal system. Guided by the belief that “the blue sky is always there,” she remains committed to ensuring that every youth in foster care has the power and support to advocate for themselves.

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